Just out of curiosity, why is it that the old fashioned "linking" is a problem for you?
So, why don't you link the channels (there are plenty of options to only link a few parameters) to rec-arm your tracks.
Why do you want to do this at all cost with VCA faders?
Because with Linking - with respect to ANY of these functions (Rec, Mute, Solo, Select, Monitor) - when you select or Rec Arm ANY of the channels they all become selected, armed, whatever.
The point is to be able to do this individually for each member channel
or Globally using the VCA master.
You could hold ALT and perform the function you desire, temporarily disabling (overriding) the linking... ? Any good for you..?
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